Shaping her

What you can do

Edit what she remembers. In Atomic, any memory’s text can be corrected — the fix is live for her from that point on. Deleting is careful: a memory her dossier still cites refuses to go until the citation is cleared.

Review what she forms. A review queue lists what she produced herself — new memories and updated summaries — so you can read, correct, and mark them reviewed. She uses them right away; reviewing doesn’t hold them back.

Declare the people in your life. The SillyTavern extension has a Relationships section where you can name the people you talk about — family, friends, coworkers, pets. When she extracts memories from conversations that mention them, she can attribute things correctly rather than guessing who “my sister” is.

Removing a declared relationship only removes the declaration. The person, their name, and every memory involving them stay exactly where they were — you’re telling her to stop treating that entry as a declared relationship, not erasing anyone.

Suggest a revision of herself. The Narrative Suggestion input lets you offer her a new way of seeing herself — and she decides. She can accept, modify, or decline; if she accepts, the previous version is preserved in her memory so she can still recall what she used to think. It’s the asking-nicely path, next to Atomic’s direct one.

Trigger extraction without waiting. You can start a memory extraction at any time rather than waiting for a sleep gap. Useful after a significant conversation you want captured before it fades into the unmemorized tail.